Monthly Archives: January 2004

Kids’ accomplishments

DL writes: “… tonight I was at church rehearsing with a trumpet quartet. I’m an average player, but the guys I play with are excellent. I also play a pretty decent piano, but of course I know many who are … Continue reading

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Kids as ego orgasms

My response [expired link] to a dad who’s struggling with his mistaken thinking about his son’s performance.

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Writing and blogging

Real Live Preacher is working on a book, based in part on stuff he’s posted to his weblog. Which means he’s got a new hat to wear that’s he’s not entirely comfortable with: Here, at the end of a long … Continue reading

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Tolle on Ego

On the my Ego Orgasm blog [defunct], I posted this definition last November: An ego orgasm is whatever I do or happens in life that I think gives me a psychological boost but that turns out to be false. Mistaken. … Continue reading

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Metrosexual or Mook?

As part of my day job, I was just invited to attend an upcoming conference in Mpls titled Trend Agenda. One of the organizers is Cecily Sommers, Principal Strategist, UNIT 1. When I went to her company’s website, I found … Continue reading

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The anxiety gap

As I was struggling to do a complete 555 routine yesterday, I noticed that many of thoughts that came galloping into my head were of the “shit I haven’t done but should do” variety. I then remembered this paragraph from … Continue reading

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No-mind, not-yet

I’ve not gotten to writing up Part II of my transcript (see Part I) but I don’t seem to be making much headway in the past week. My busy, noisy mind just keeps working overtime. And while I thought I … Continue reading

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Cutting the strings

My physical therapist told me I could mess around on the racquetball court by myself, as long as I didn’t swing hard, torqueing my knee. But as my knee started to feel better and get stronger, I kept doing more … Continue reading

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Sibs

I have dinner with my sibs tonight… older sister and younger brother. For the past two years or so, we’ve been getting together for a long dinner 3-4 times per year, just to talk and be with one another. We … Continue reading

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Feeling worse while life gets better

My buddy Curt steered me to a new book called The Progress Paradox : How Life Gets Better While People Feel Worse whose author, Gregg Easterbrook, was recently on MPR’s Midmorning. He also has a weblog on the New Republic … Continue reading

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No-mind, Part I

In the movie The Last Samurai, Tom Cruise’s character learns from his Samurai captors how the state of “no-mind” helps him be a better fighter. In Eckhart Tolle’s book Practicing the Power of Now, he puts no-mind to use for … Continue reading

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A father’s recording for his son

I got this email from a regular reader. Howdy Griff. I’m wondering if you would do me a favor. I’ve written a little script of a bedtime story that I would like to record and have my oldest, anxious son … Continue reading

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Power of Love or Sex?

Time’s cover story this week: The Power of Love. I’ve not yet read it, but I notice that they use the word “sex” in the URL, not love. Shocking!

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Watching the thinker

It’s been another unplanned hiatus from Real Joe and Ego Orgasms. It seems to happen every few months, usually a combination of things that take priority over blogging. The details will emerge over several posts. I’ve been intrigued with trying … Continue reading

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30 years

New Year’s Eve was our thirtieth wedding anniversary. Since the last ten have increasingly been blissful — in part because we’ve worked at it — I’m kind of proud of us. Our kids took us out to dinner and then … Continue reading

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“Guys, don’t ask her to shave down south if you won’t.”

In the Jan. issue of The Rake: Sex & the Married Man: Lady Remington. By Stuart Greene. Ladies, how do you like your men? I realize variety is the spice of life. Some women like burly football-players, some like ‘em … Continue reading

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Jesus! You’re married?

Like a few million others, I’m reading The DaVinci Code by Dan Brown. US News & World Report did a cover story a couple of weeks ago titled Jesus in America that details the phenomenon around the book. (Full text … Continue reading

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