Let there be spaces in your togetherness. – Kahlil Gibran
My wife Robbie and I both know that we like our alone time. We both take advantage of the fact that I’m a morning person and she’s a night person. And for those times when I’d like to connect with her in the evening, I’ve learned that I best take a nap, which, fortunately, I love to do. She hates to nap, so it’s pretty rare for her to get up early to connect with me… she’s then exhausted by midday. II don’t mind, though, since it’s a rhythm to our marriage that seems to work well right now. I wonder if it’ll ever change?