Essay: Scoring Points. Cashing in.
The art of scoring points with a woman escaped me for much of my marriage. My dad’s philosophy seemed to be that a guy was just supposed to be his own man and if the partners were a good match, it’d work out. Any extra effort to be ‘nice’ or ‘kind’ could be seen as pandering to a woman, edging too close to that dangerous moment when—if you weren’t careful—your wife would “have ya by the balls.” … MORE—>>